Nothing it is of nobody and the principle of the functioning of the place as an industry: planning of activities with emphasis in the order and the routine, privacy lack (collective rooms, that are locked during the day), lack of physical contact, discipline based in silence, the submission and absence of autonomy and break periodic of affective bonds. … Depriving it of its subjective space, its individual contents and the possibility of construction of affective bonds. However, all necessary child and deserves to coexist in a harmonious familiar environment, in fact in a home. Ahead of this for that they had lost the parental bond and if finds in shelters still has a possibility of being happy, of to feel ' ' gostinho' ' of what it is to be loved through adoption. In short, as Weber (2009, p.47), says: The people are not all who can, or that they must, to adopt a child, but people exist to adopt all the children. Who takes this type of attitude is not a hero or an individual with being possible, but a person with an enormous capacity of donation, of understanding and commitment with the other. However, nor always all the children who if find in shelters are available for the adoption process. Many simply wait an improvement of the parents, what they call period of reintegration with the family who, as colloquy carried through with the responsible one for the shelter and of the Court of the Pole of the Infancy and Youth of Old Village, it consists of ' ' to give one tempo' ' so that the family if reestablishes and can if ' ' ajeitar' ' taking later its son for house. As she synthecizes Weber (2009, p.63): ' ' She is necessary specific programs of assistance, as in relation to alcoholism, the drogadio, practical educative without violence etc.' ' , that is, the time is not only enough for a family to structuralize and to surpass the vices surround that it, but all an efficient and including accompaniment, therefore the child cannot be in a shelter having its uncertain future.