At last we will go through the issue of differences between the male and female brain, analyzing to their abilities, well them to their needs and priorities. Key-words: communication, newly-married, to hear, love, brain male, brain female. Introduction the communication exists in all the relations, is a process in which the human beings share information, that is, its way of life and its feelings. The communication between just-married spouses must more be than a simple exchange of information, it must imply in giving, receiving and to understand what he is being said, spoken or expressed, everything this with much love, respect and empatia. So that if it has a good communication must have participation of both the sides. Inside of the relationship the communication is an indispensable tool for the construction of well-being, therefore that in elapsing of this work, we go to analyze what is really communication.

For Wright (1995, p.56) ' ' communication is a process (verbal or not) to share information with another person of a form such that it understands what you are dizendo.' ' For Kings (2001, p.31) ' ' the efficient communication is basic for one lasting marriage. It speaks with freedom of its feelings, without showing to censorship or crtica.' ' Standing out that this critical censorship or can make with that the couple comes if to retract and it does not want to speak on its feelings. Another point of extreme relevance is that we do not have to say the words when we are with anger, therefore they wounds our spouse, and words said at an anger moment are not extinguished easily. Then when we will be with anger we must cool our head and later looking our spouse to talk, thus the words will be said with calm and clarity. Therefore, that Pelt (2003, P. 57) clarifies in them: ' ' words said with anger could not be extinguished, and it does not have nothing that can undo its effect.