At this moment you can be cooling a great love the way of the happiness and perhaps she does not have the had notion to give account of this. For many psychoanalysts ' ' luto' ' for a loss it delays months, years and until a life all. But with this vision, it would have to last only some hours, therefore we would perceive that we are losing time in coming back fixed to a pleasure, whose experience, already passed. The capacity that we have to decide it I fight of the love is proportional its force, vigor and spirit of the life. In this direction it would have meant the expressions common as ' ' mais' is loved; ' , ' ' ball pra frente' ' , ' ' it thinks about voc' ' or ' ' what it passed, passou' '. These are cliches used in the mouth and mind of many adolescents, as much of age as of spirit. They are done phrases that in a general way if present meaningless, only survive with use of ematomas of the frustrated people without illusions or of heart. In this aspect it seems to be a signal of weak personality to use who them.
However, when one is about a not corresponded loving feeling, these cliches if transform into miraculous sentences so that its happiness is in the way of the life and not in the text of the putrefao of what already it passed. If the thing melou, steps on fort of the mud or esterco, so that to try to clean? I smell it would not be more than perfume as in the first meeting, with certainty. To recoup the past is to ignore the fact of that people with new expectations exist, vigor, goals, focus disposal, acts imaginations, joys with great perspectives at last, to turn itself fights it is to die in a point in the world knowing that the entire world exists to enjoy; it is to still look at for the death having a gift that God gave in them: the life! Soon, I fight for it, has a cliche that it can be a great phrase of meaning in this humble boarding: ' ' To live vida' ' , in fact! Thus, we reflect what he is ' ' to be humano' ': Somebody that it has a history, but still lives a gift to produce new histories, focando in it always loves who it of truth and having the due and necessary correspondence. that is, the human being is an alive being and that it must live getting loose itself of its past, giving an end point to form many new commas